Motherhood: expectations vs reality

Before I had Aria I had an idea of what I was going to be like as a mum. I was gonna be one of those DIY mums that did loads of fun sensory activities, made the most of maternity leave and went to LOADS of toddler groups. Well, the reality couldn’t be further from […]

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The mental side of motherhood

Having a baby changes your life. You know this throughout pregnancy, you know to expect it to be hard at times, you mentally prepare yourself in those 9 months. You mentally prepare yourself for the labour and birth. You think about how you will cope with the pain. You know that it’s going to change […]

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Juggling the load.

So it’s been quite a while since I’ve written a blog post, but for once it’s not because I’ve forgotten this existed. It’s because I have either had no time or no motivation. Since December I’ve gone back to work part time. It’s still a work in progress trying to juggle the whole working Mum […]

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Famous last words 

“I’m really going to make sure I make the most out of my maternity leave”. Next joke… don’t get my wrong, the first couple of months I made sure our weeks were fun filled and we were out of the house pretty much everyday. But now… our days are pretty much playing on the rug […]

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Who am I?

At the moment I am Mummy. But I seem to have forgotten I am also Holly, a wife, a daughter, a granddaughter, a niece, and a friend. Having a baby just consumes your whole life. You are always referring to yourself as Mummy so that is who you are. When your baby is this young, […]

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What pregnancy has taught me

Pregnancy can be fun. Pregnancy can also be not so fun. Before being pregnant, I just couldn’t wait until that day came where I would be growing human life inside of me. To be able to go about your day to day life and grow a human, is pretty cool if you ask me. As […]

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Fake it till you make it

This week has been a really though week for me. Emotionally and mentally. It’s gotten to the point where the littlest thing, and even silly things push me to tears. I don’t know how many times this week i’ve brimmed up, but what I do know is that it wasn’t good for me. Yes, it’s […]

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